Pearltruths

A trend has been observed lately. And it’s good in this day and age. Because we are growing and learning. However, in doing so, let’s remain humble, not getting cocky, and just be. Be proud of it as I am, but in a good way. Not in a conceited obnoxious way. As a collective, we have a lot of growing to do. And it will come through.

So, let’s get started. This isn’t an opinion, it’s data analyzed across different platforms on the web, where women are choosing to stay single, often going to the movies alone, doing their routines and exploring their identities while single. And I think that is an optimal way of living as a start. Woohoo! Because too many of us have lost ourselves, our sense of self-worth, and it’s time to heal and re-discover who we are. What do you want in life, and who do you want to become as being humble and self-respecting if we haven’t already done so.

It is my hope that I don’t see women bashing men in any way shape or form. For example, if you encountered men personally while shopping at the grocery store, enjoying yourself at the movies. Working out at the gym or going to the coffee shop. Because that would not be helping. Be the change we wish to see in the world.

Instead, be kind, be intentional. Take a look around you, and have gratitude for where you are, what you have accomplished. Please make an effort to be consistent in your decisions and accept the things that are. It’s one way to make things better for you. It can be small things, and it can be something big. As long as you feel good about it. There are too many illnesses spreading because some of us are angry, resentful, and bitter of one another or at family and friends. This is how you attract disease or already have it. That’s not what you want to attract in your life. Because it is not healthy.

This is why I tell my stories and I hope they help my readers. So that, you know where I came from and what I experienced. And it took me a while. I want you to be healed sooner rather than later. If you’re having difficulty coping and getting help. Please see a therapist. There are plenty available for low-income women, and families. They are also available for men. Men, this is not weakness. It is simply human. Nothing else. And I see that men are more accepting of individuality in many cases. Please keep it up, or it takes away the coolness in being a man.

If us women continue to do our part in healing and growing, and seek to be the best version of ourselves, imagine how we can impact the human race. Let’s keep this trend going and knock it outta the park! Love and Respect.